Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Tuesday, December 8

Dale Maddock, Elder

Years ago, when my daughters were young, we would come from Buffalo to visit my parents in the small town they lived in. The house was nothing special, but for the girls, they looked forward to being on the front porch with their grandfather. They would chit-chat together and watch people walk by.

One of those people was a tall slender man, in his forties perhaps. He came down the street with difficulty. There had been an accident in his youth that left him unable to walk without a cane—the kind with the four leg extensions. The sidewalk was uneven and broken. Each day he walked past my parent’s house, from where and to where I do not know.

It turned out he also was unable to speak clearly. Frequently he would stop at the house, come up to the porch, and visit with my dad. My daughters were fascinated with it all. To this day they comment how my dad would listen to this young man, they would smile and laugh. It was clear that being accepted as a person like anyone else was not his normal experience.

The girls asked my dad once what the man’s name was. He had no idea, but for over five years they visited like old friends. Sometimes they just sat together on the porch and said nothing.

Sometimes hospitality demands we step out of our comfort zone… to be offered to strangers and not just friends. In our spiritual life, the church commands us to be hospitable as if our acts were done for Jesus.

“Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it” Hebrews 13:2.

Monday, December 7, 2009

Monday, December 7

Peter DuBois, Director of Music/Organist
“Savior of the nations, come, Virgin’s Son, make here Your home. Marvel now, O heaven and earth, That the Lord chose such a birth” (Hymn 14: text by Ambrose of Milan, 4th century; paraphrased by Martin Luther, 1524).

Here we are in the second week of Advent already, and by now we’ve probably all been bombarded by upbeat, sell-all-you-can, Christmas music for over a month now! Of course no one loves Christmas music more than I, but the longer I live, the more I need that time of preparation and reflection that the words and music of Advent offer.

It’s hard to place ourselves in the position of those who had not yet received the Messiah, to know the depth and breadth of their longing. But if we cultivate our sense of wonder, hinted at in the ancient words above, we can step back a bit, and reflect on the totally unexpected—yet longed-for—appearance of Emmanuel, God-With-Us.

With the ubiquity of Christmas all around us, it is ever more important, in the words of that great carol, that “every heart prepare Him room.” That’s what Advent is about, and without that preparation, we can’t be fully ready to receive the Gift.

Dear God, help us to step back from the hustle and bustle of the season around us to wonder, with those of long ago, at the marvelous-ness of Your coming among us. And help us to prepare our hearts for receiving the greatest Gift of all. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

December 6: The Second Sunday in Advent

Church of Scotland Invitation to the Lord’s Supper

Come to the table not because you are strong, but because you understand something of your own weakness.Come to the table not because you feel worthy, but because you have a sense of your own unworthiness; come not because you love God a lot, but because you love God a littleand want to learn to love God more.

(By William Barclay, from Worship Now: A Collection of Services and Prayer for Public Worship, St. Andrew’s Press, 1972)

Friday, December 4, 2009

Friday, December 4

Chris Bensch, Clerk of Session


“With one mind they kept up their daily attendance at the temple, and, breaking bread in private houses, shared their meals with unaffected joy, as they praised God and enjoyed the favor of the whole people. And day by day the Lord added to their number those whom he was saving” Acts 2:46-47.

As someone who loves to cook for others, this passage from Acts caught my attention. In fact, it sounds like daily worship and the shared meals are equally important in building up the early Christian community. Over the years, I’ve offered meals as a particular form of Christian hospitality. For a while, I prepared monthly congregational lunches for a church in Utica. Most recently, I’ve been baking for Dining Room Ministry. Giving hospitality in the form of meals feels “right” to me and part of fulfilling my calling.

But receiving hospitality can be harder for me to do. For several years, I provided occasional rides to church for a woman in my neighborhood. She was visually impaired and I was glad to assist in this modest way. So when she invited me to dinner at her apartment as thanks for my transportation, my first thought was, “She doesn’t need to do that.” I told myself that her limited finances shouldn’t be forced to extend to feeding me. But that’s when I recognized that what I really needed to do was accept her gift of hospitality. I’d been comfortable as a hospitality “giver,” but it was only through the power of the Holy Spirit that I came to see that receiving hospitality could hold its own special form of blessing.

Gracious God, bless us as we give hospitality and when we receive hospitality. Show us the ways that each can be a way of living out our Christ-centered faith. Amen.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Thursday, December 3

Becky D’Angelo Vietch, Coordinator for Children’s Ministries and Congregational Fellowship

Every Christmas, I do lots of baking. I have pared it down, but I still do a lot of baking—cut-outs, my Great Grandma Meta’s gingery “Brittles”, pizzelle’s using Grandma D’Angelo’s old pizelle iron, and usually some new recipe I have seen in a magazine.

We bake and decorate and bake and decorate. We eat some, but, let’s be honest; there are only so many cookies a family of four can really eat!

My mom bakes as much as I do, maybe more, so I can’t bring the cookies there for Christmas dinner (besides, there is usually pie...) so, somewhere around January 10th, I toss them out with regret.

“I hate to see these go to waste... I wish I had thought to bring them to book club or give them to the elderly couple next door...” It helps me understand the phrase, “an embarrassment of riches.”

How are we like this with the gospel? Do you ever attend a wonderful worship or fellowship event only to think afterwards; “Oh, I wish I would have invited our new neighbor to that.” Christmas is a time of giving and sharing, but also a time of welcoming and inviting. I invite you to consider how you might show hospitality and welcome to others this season.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Wednesday, December 2

Rod Perry, Elder

Thinking on Hospitality... Hospitality to me means room in your heart to welcome others. It is not necessarily a home or a house, but an accepting openness within our selves. When we open our heart we can see the spark that lights the other person, the divine that is in everyone. It is perhaps only a smile that warms the moment or a deep searching that blends our souls in ways we had never expected.

We may find in the opened heart new ways of thinking about something, or a solution to a perplexity, or simply a warm feeling that flows from the energy of the empathy we have created. It is not risk-free, this opening of the heart, for it can lead down uncharted paths that open to new alarms or old regrets. It requires a faith that any trust will be upheld and that any danger is only a shiver at the draft when we open our heart’s door. But unless we risk opening, we will not know the infinite variety that God has created in our world.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Tuesday, December 1

Beth Laidlaw, Deacon

The first chapter of John’s gospel describes Jesus’ entrance into an inhospitable world:
“He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him” John 1:10-11.
I continue to marvel at how, set in my own patterns of thinking, I do not recognize others, let alone give them comfort. In addition, John gives a description of Christ’s amazing hospitality:
“Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God—children born not of natural descent nor of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God” John 1:12.

Lord, this Advent season, help me to see those around me who I take to be invisible. And help me to prepare comfort at my work, my home, and my table for your children who are newly visible to me. Amen